You will see them walking majestically or even driving proudly,they are well groomed and handsome so to speak,they are attractive as such and they draw attention from ladies from all walks of life.But have you ever stopped to think why they are always alone or rather lonely in those classy and expensive vehicles?
Perhaps not,or perhaps you think that they have pretty girlfriends or wives back at home.Hell no,you are damn wrong!Confused?No,don’t get confused here,am talking about these classy men who’ve got ‘big’ jobs and money,they live life they don’t survive like some of us do,they breath refined air….hahaha…is that even true? They drink distilled water and triple distilled wine,they dine with kings and queens in restaurants some of us only see on televisions during advertisements and they sleep in warm beds in their expensive homes,remember I didn’t say houses……..
I guess all of us have seen such men,and of course severally.Some will even confess that they wonder why such men would stoop so low so low so as to call a simple lady along the road to accompany them.Others will go to an extend of approaching ladies who are far much lower than their class dictates but something funny is that they do it desperately and with no fear at all.
I luckily got a chance to speak to some of these men and asked them why they go for ladies who are not of their caliber yet they seem so desperate to get them or lure them into loving them.It was really hard at first to confess that but at the end truth was to be told.
John is a managing director at a leading company in our capital city,Nairobi,Kenya,he is a born again man aged around 40 years and lives at a well furnished house in one of the classy estates in town.He tells me that he earns good money and of course that is expected,he confesses to me that he has never had a long term girlfriend and the last one he had,he had plans to marry her but all did not go as expected since they broke up due to the unfaithful nature of his girlfriend.
He got hurt but after so0me time decided to move on with life and find himself a better partner and God willing a life partner.Five years down the line,his dreams seems to be shuddered,he has never found his true love or anything closer to that.John says that no matter how down to earth he seems to be,no matter how serious he’s been no girl has he ever approached that seems to find him serious.
No matter how he is into the girl,no matter how he showers her with gifts or how he treats her like a queen.He also tells me that he wonders why women will rather fall for the bad boys,these careless men,drunkards and players.He says that he has a friend whom is a drunkard and never wants commitments but funny enough when they approach the same lady it is obvious that the lady will fall for his friend and he will be left out.
He then tells me that he has no option but to try any lady who comes his way no matter how low he will stoop but at least he will have a companion even if for a short time or just a while.The big question is ,is it true that ladies fall only for bad boys,or they fear these classy ‘good’ boys.Perhaps the ladies will have to spill the beans!!
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